My boyfriend is very jealous. Not just about guys talking to me or
something, but he gets jealous when I do things with my girlfriends. He
feels left out, although I never give him any reason to feel left out.
It's just that he wants me to do everything with him. Doesn't he know that
I would love him even more if he DOES let me do my own things. This way of
treating me is very suffocating. I am scared to even tell him I am going
to a concert on a Friday night with a friend and have something else to do
on the Saturday after, both of which things he wouldn't want to join me in
anyway! So, finally I do tell him of my plans, cos I don't want to lie to
him, he makes a big fuss and we have the same old argument once more. I
would like to share everything with him and make him a part of everything
that goes on in my life, but if that means that he has to trash everything
that goes on: no thankyou! I love him to bits, but sometimes I cannot
take anymore of this.......So to all you jealous people out there: Know
that you only push you love away by trying to pull him/her closer to you.
If she/he does not do/say or whatever what you would want him/her to
do/say, you do more harm by forcing her/him than to just leave it. And you
know what: I bet he/she would appreciate you more if you would give
her/him some space to breathe!!!!
I know I would......
My problem is that I'm dead jealous about my boyfriend.
The funniest thing is that he has NEVER given me a reason to be jealous.
Never.
I have to admit that I don't have a very good self-esteem and I don't consider myself very attractive, and this is obviously the reason for my feelings..But I can not help myself!
And what's really weird that I always seem to beg for it, actually..You know,I'd start asking about his old girlfriends, if they were pretty or thin or fat, or something like that.
Or I'd take him to see a film where someone like Rachel Weisz (he thinks she's the most beautiful woman on earth, I think..) gets her kit off, and then I'd get depressed and start crying..
This is so silly, I know..! But I just want someone to like me best, although I know it's impossible with my looks..I mean,seriously, isn't that the way the world works..??
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